One way I have begun this journey is by watching Alfie Kohn's Unconditional Parenting DVD. I've know WHAT I wanted to do since my boys were born. But DOING it in day to day life can be quite another thing.
This past week I REALLY resolved to jump on and begun consciously parenting and being the parent I know my boys need. And with good results and peace in my own soul!
Below are the 10 basic principles of Unconditional Parenting. Though this is just a glimpse, I highly encourage you to read the book or watch the DVD for full understanding! Also after the 10 principles I'll add some You Tube clips/excerpts from Alfie Kohn's lecture!