The Divorce Chronicles Healing Takes Time: 5 things NOT to say Yes I know. Don't say it. "Terra, you share too much." Well, yes. Yes I do. I wear my heart on my sleeve. For so long I have always done what others told me. I stuffed things down. I lived my life for others. I'm 47 years old (almost 48). I will no longer live for others. At least in the sense of trying to please everyone. I don't have to hid. I don't have to feel ashamed. AND, I don't have to agree. I'm getting ahead of myself a bit. I'll never forget the day I knew my marriage was over. May 7, 2017. 1 year, 7 months, 10 days, 11 hours, 18 minutes, 30 seconds ago to be precise (at the time I wrote this). The year before that our marriage almost ended. There was 'forgiveness' and we moved beyond. 9 months went by. I thought everything was perfect. Better than ever. That Sunday all I heard was "I tried so hard. But I just don'